Fake Friends

The best way to avoid disappointment is to stop thinking everyone is your friend. I tell it how it is & I won’t sugar coat anything. If you’re not going to take a bullet for me, pick me up when I’m at my worst, help me pay off a bill when I have nothing, or simply be there when I need you emotionally; then you’re not my friend. You are my associate. I’ll do all of that & some more for my real friends. Don’t hit my line up when it’s convenient for you, because I will not answer. Don’t talk to me only when it’s convenient for you, because I will not listen. And don’t you dare slander my name when I’m not around just because I wasn’t there for your convenience, because I will press issue. You are not my friend if you don’t defend my name when I’m not around. You are not my friend if you tell other people what you don’t like about me. You are not my friend. You are my hater. Thank you. I just needed to clarify that.

Fake Friends

Potatoes??

Can someone please tell me why girls compare themselves to potatoes? They say they look like a potato as in ugly. Haven’t they learned it’s not what’s on the outside that matters, but what’s on the inside. I mean damn. Potatoes turn into some beautiful ish! Like fries, hash browns, sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, freaking soup, & even potatoe pancakes!! Y’all actually give yourself a compliment when you call yourself a potatoe. ~Xo, Sai

Potatoes??

To all of my Friends

Here’s to all my friends. I have a lot of friends. I have different types of friends. Some are about to graduate college. Some are married, have kids, & about to graduate college. Some are serving our country in the military. Some are mothers or fathers with no support from the other or even family. Some are high school drop outs though have their GED. Some are struggling trying to find out what they want to do with their life. Some are working, raising a kid(s), & managing their own bills. Some have just found God. Some have just become stronger from life situations & hard times. So here’s to all of my friends. I am proud of you & where you are in life. NEVER give up on your dreams. Don’t compare your chapter to someone else’s. You are your own person. I am sure proud of each & every one of you. ~ Xo, Sai

To all of my Friends

Why Judge?

Why do people judge? I will never understand. We are all the same on the inside. So why judge the cover when technically we are all of the same makeup. God made us unique. Each and everyone of us is different, though we all are the same internally. I won’t lie. I was very judgmental at a younger age in life. Though, as an adult. I have been through life changing experiences that opened my eyes. I never judged after that. I understood that truly sometimes someone sitting 5 seats down from you, can be going through the exact same thing as you. We can connect on a deeper level. You have to give people a chance. You never know what people are going through. You can either be the “last straw” that breaks them down or you can be the “helping hand” to lift them up. You decide. Be kind, be grateful, be humble, be patient, be loving in all you do. Stop the hate, bullying, gossip, & rumors. You want us to have a peaceful world, yet people left & right aren’t doing anything to help it be a better place over all. I have every right to state an opinion to explain my point. So let me give an example. The “cash me outside how bout that” girl is famous for a less important moment. Why is that more important than world peace or even motivation. They make memes off this girl. Why can’t people make memes off of happy things? Positive things. When ever I see memes, it is usually based off of something someone did that was immature, silly, or just plain stupid. I know there’s lots of different memes. It’s just different how I see it. (Don’t get me wrong. I have a good sense of humor. I’m just deep in thought. Lol.) People don’t talk about positive things these days. They are dull, negative, bad vibes. The United States of America is now looking like The United States of Anxiety.. All because of the new president Donald Trump. My hubby & I now have a reason to not miss out on the news each day. It’s sad. It’s just sad. This world is becoming unkempt. I’m sad for this world. 

Peace. Love. Sai (:

Why Judge?